Hello,

I’m Tina Kennard, 60 years old, I live in Los Angeles and I’m 32 years married to the incredible Bette Porter. She is a little touchy about the fact that she’s older than me… :). Bette is 65 but she still looks gorgeous. If you wouldn’t know she is 65, you would think she is 50.

Bette is the love of my life that is for sure. I love her so much and that feeling gets stronger every day. I don’t know how I would survive without her. We had our rough times. She cheated on me, I cheated on her… we had in total three break-up’s. First, one was after she cheated on me when we were 7 years together. When we lost our baby boy, she just couldn’t handle all the grief she had and she wanted to be there for me. I understand why she did it but it was very painful. We put that behind us now but the first time we got back together I was still angry with her. Then I cheated on her, with a man. We were then 8 years together, that was our second break-up. After Angie was born, I had some crazy feelings for man but I think that just appeared because I still was angry with Bette for cheating on me and I wanted someone that could give me security and stability. Bette didn’t have work at the time and kept purchasing things like when she was still working and that irritated me so much. I wanted something more secure and I thought a man was the solution. First, there was Josh but he turned out to be a jerk. After that, I found another man, Henry. I met him when I dis a swimming class with Angelica and he was there with his son. I broke up with Bette and moved in with Henry. In the beginning, it was great but soon I felt alone. Our friends almost hated me and I missed Bette so much. After a while, I broke up with Henry and bought me an apartment. Bette was with Jodi at the time. Bette cheated on her with me and then eventually broke up with Jodi to be with me.  Then we broke up again when we were about 21 years together. She found herself ugly because she was 54, starting to get wrinkles and had gained a few pounds. I still found her breathtaking but she pulled away from me. I thought she didn’t love me anymore and I kind of dumped her. It was just hard that Bette didn’t connect with me physically and emotionally anymore.  The reason we got back together is that we still had to see each other for our four children.