Why are you her mommy? asked the little boy

            Why are you asking that honey? Don’t you like my surprise? Helena was surprised by her kid question, they boy looked shyly to her mother not wanting to tell her the truth.

            We heard mom talking with our granddad, explained Jun Ying, when mommy told our grandparents you were here and that we will be with you after school, granddad got angry at her,… he said… many things about you. He said you wanted to keep us far away from mom.

            That’s not true honey, I love kids, I would never do anything bad to you. Your mom and I… had some problems when we divorced, but it’s normal between two adults when they broke up to say or do things that later regret, but, I love your mother, she’s a good woman… Helena was trying to find a good way to explain her kids what happened some years ago between Winnie and her, but it was complicated. Jun, have you ever done something to Wilson that you regretted, or does he ever done something to you like that?

            Both kids say yes by moving her heads up and down.

            Ok, however, though you have hurt each other, do you love each other? Again both kids said yes.  And I know that though some times you have arguments you love mom very much and you also love me, don’t you? That’s what happened between your mother and I, though bigger, we had a big argument that have lasted very long,… but we are friends again. Do you understand it?

            Wilson looked at her sister and then at her mother I do and mom too, she argued with her daddy because she said you weren’t as bad as he thinks… grandma said that mom is right and that you needed your time…

            Helena felt overwhelmed after hearing her kids’ words, Everything is ok babies, mom and I are just worried for you, we tried to do things as better as we can… I don’t want you to think that we don’t love you, for your mom and for me both of you are the most important things in our life, ok? Both of you, without differences. Do you understand that? Helena wanted the kids to be sure about how their mothers loved them without considereing if one of them was adopted, and the other not.