Dr. Wilson: This is due to a lack of certain hormones. It’s what gives us that aged look. You will have to consult with a skin specialist if this is a problem. This office does not treat skin problems or hair loss problems. None of these things happen overnight and they don’t happen to everyone. They are gradual and happen over months or years.  You need to be aware of the possibility and be prepared to make adjustments. But keep up your exercise, eat a balanced diet, drink lots of water and do nothing to excess. Any questions?

Tina:  So, you are certain that we are both entering menopause?

Dr Wilson:  You are at the right age and you both are experiencing some of the same things. My bets are that within the week, you too will experience hot flashes. And Tina, if you are not, you will be in the very near future. I’m hoping that you both go through it together. I wish my husband was experiencing hot flashes when I was. It would have made him a bit more sympathetic to my discomfort.  I have presented the worst-case scenario. I have friends who have gone through with a few hot flashes and then everything just leveled out. They had to get some lubricant for sex, but other than that, they never skipped a beat. And this could be the case for you guys.

Bette:  Well, if it goes like it has gone so far, then it not going to be a big deal.

Dr Wilson:  Well, you are the first couple who has come in with the increased libido to the level you are describing. That’s one benefit that most every woman I know would give up 10 years of their life to get for a couple of months. Fortunately, you both are in love with each other and your desire to be with each other corresponds with this benefit.  I consider you the luckiest women in the world. Can you imagine having this increase sex drive and being married to someone that you are not even sleeping with or who had no desire for sex?  That would be a nightmare!

Tina:  Too bad it’s not going to last. It sure has been nice surprise.