Bette:  I know this is a lot to take in, but we have a lot more information to give you about relationships. We need to talk about the differences between men and women and I don’t mean the penis and the pussy.  I mean the way they think; the way they form relationships; the way they process information and solve problems. And I think this is the most important information we can give you. And if you use it in your judgement of people, I believe that you will be able to find, recognize and form a lasting relationship with the love of your life just like we have.  Now only you can determine who that is or who that will be. Only you can feel what is in your heart and only you can develop the skills and techniques which will lead to your happiness. If there was like a place on your body and we had a magic formula which gave you all the skills to avoid a broken heart and end up with the love of your life, we would give it to you tonight.  Life is a process of successes and failures. And for every success, there is a pile of failures. Those failures are how we learn to relate to each other as humans. It’s how we learn what not to do. It’s how we learn to draw that line in the sand and not go beyond it. It’s our relationship failures which set our boundaries. It’s our failures which create our successes. It’s our successes which expand our horizons and advance to the next phase of life.

Tina: You have a wonderful extended family. Last week we had 12 adults, all which achieved successful loving relationships.  Every one of them have a long, long history of failures trying to find the right partner in life. Every one of them were where you are today some 20 to 30 years ago. Every one of them had their heart broken multiple times. Every one of them had problems with relationships. And every one of them will make time for you to help you with advice and council whenever you want it. They have a wealth of knowledge ready and available to share with you. All you need to do is ask.